We decide to meet at Lucy's 51, a lounge in Toluca Lake. Decibel is there with a potential man school client and we chill for a few minutes with a drink and chat. I had suggested the place and had been there on a Thursday a few weeks ago, but wasn't sure what it was like on a Friday night. The place was filled with mainly guys, and don't see a whole lot of sets to open.
I notice a cute girl walk in sit at a bar by herself. I wait a minute or two to see if she has a guy in tow. No guy, so I decide to go open. I'll call her Hb1.
Opener:
"Happy Friday! I saw you from where I was sitting and thought you were adorable so I had to come over and say hi."
Stack:
*We chat about our evenings so far. She had just come from a dance exhibition.
*I mention that she is really nice and can't be from So Cal, and we chat about our backgrounds.
*I throw out random questions (credit Natural Tim RSD)
So from this I find out that she has a boyfriend. Not a problem, but makes it more of a challenge. A girlfriend of hers shows up. Another cutie (not a hottie but a cutie). She is from Detroit so I'll call her HbDt. I chat with them both a little and Decibel comes over to wing. We all move back to our table. I start chatting with HbDt as Decibel chats with Hb1.
If you haven't read some of my other field reports, the style I have embraced is being sexual, but being discrete. I've realized that women have all these pent up cravings and sexual desires, but they don't want to be judged or act like sluts in front of their friends. So I keep everything very subtle.
Conversation that led to SNL:
So the way that I do this is I pepper sexual frames into our normal conversation.
Here are some of the normal conversational topics we chatted about:
*Detroit, Kid Rock & Eminem, brunch at sagebrush cantina, her cooking abilities, favorite hangout spots, bartending, the most adventurous things we've done lately.
Here are the sexual frames I ran throughout the night (I've posted all of these before):
*You have a very sweet face, but I detect a hidden naughty side, naughty palm read, genie (rub my head for 3 wishes), 5 things to do in Vegas to experience Sinn City, secret in her ear, holding her hand, rubbing her leg.
When I ran genie, I told her I wa going to grant her 3 wishes (multiple orgasms whenever she wants, her and her family get to live forever, and she gets to have hot sex tonight). After I did this she pulled out her blackberry and said "I don't see the hot sex on my calendar". I said, "that's the great thing about calenders, you can add things at anytime". So she says "Ok, what time should I schedule it for". I say "1:30". She add's a note on her schedule and shows it to me "Hot sex with a bald guy while he wears a condom". Now this is a very important statement and falls under the 5 objections I have posted in other reports. Girls don't want to get pregnant or get an STD. This was a roundabout way for her to check and make sure I was cool with safe sex. After she showed me this I went into a routine in which I indicate that I always have safe sex. The schedule became a running joke through the rest of the evening and from time to time we would check our watches and be like "Ok, 2 hours until our hot sex session".
At one point in the conversation, she asked if I was looking for a relationship or just looking to get laid. Now in my old way of thinking I would have said that "I have no expectations, just want to see what happens" because I thought that if I admitted I wanted to "get laid" it could hurt my chances and I should leave all my options open, especially if she is looking for a relationship. But now I understand that she is potentially screening me for a SNL, and if I set a frame that I could be possibly looking for a relationship, then it actually makes it harder for a SNL. Girls usually don't want to have sex the first night with someone they may have a potential relationship with. So my answer was "I just want to get laid". Her response was "that's not in the cards for me tonight". I never acknowledged her response and kept on chatting.
So about 45 mins into our conversation I ask if is she is a texter. She give me her number and I tell her I am going to text her "Something Dirty" (got this from Decibel). See the text message transcript below.
What's interesting about our text message conversation is that, we're all sitting there together, but her and I are in our own little sexual world via text message. Nobody knows what we're texting about. It looks like we are just sitting there having a normal conversation. Hb1 has no idea that things are getting sexual, and it gives me the opportunity to get HbDt in a sexual mood, without much kino at all. Like I said, I'm flying under the radar.
**Text messages**
CtV (11:23): Something dirty...
HbDt (11:24): More I like it
HbDt (11:24): Please
CtV (11:25): Do you know the naughty things I would be doing to you if we weren't in a bar right now?? :)
HbDt (11:25): No
HbDt (11:26): I'm innocent
CtV (11:27): Me too. I'm a good mormon boy.
HbDt (11:33): How good?
CtV (11:54): You will be so wet it will be dripping down your leg
HbDt (11:55): Promises promises
HbDt (11:56): So you assume I need your help for that?
CtV (12:03): Yes, I can help with that. With my special genie powers ;)
CtV (12:16): Let's get out of here.
HbDt (12:19): And go where?
CtV (12:20): Know a hotel close by? We can go there...
HbDt (12:21): Google...Hold on
HbDt (12:27): Beverly garland
HbDt (12:27): On Vineland
CtV (12:28): Got it..
CtV (12:29): I'll leave 5 mins after you do..
HbDt (12:30): Covert operation
CtV (12:36): Leaving now..
HbDt (12:40): Me too been talking to s******** outside
*The next morning:
CtV (8:13): Driving home. You were yummy last night. Text me sometime if you want to do it again :) Have a good rest of the weekend..
HbDt (10:41): Next time I'm in the mood for a covert operation you will be the first person to know ;)
So meet at the hotel in seperate cars. Damn it's expensive! A room is $200. I'm a little paranoid about fucking in public so I drop the coin on the room. Clothes immediately come off and we have a good long fuck session. I wore her out and kept holding off cumming cause I wanted to get the most bang for my buck (haha).
So after we were done I asked her when she knew she was going to sleep with me. She said when I texted her "Let's get out of here". I thought it would have been earlier but who knows. She then said that her friend (Hb1) NEVER talks to a guy one on one like she did with Decibel, so I have to give Decibel props again for being a great wing. I remember looking over at them throughout the night and seeing them engrossed in conversation and Decibel giving her the serious lovey dovy eye contact. Again GREAT JOB DECIBEL.
So I here is where I need some advice from the community. There was some ackwardness after we were done fucking. She was getting dressed and I was just crashing in the bed. It was pretty quiet during the 5 minutes she was doing this and I didn't come up with much to say. It felt a little uncomfortable ending it this way, and was wondering if anyone has any good ideas on what you talk about in that period of time when she is getting up and getting dressed before she leaves. Or is it ok just to stay quiet?
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