SNLR - Hotel Pull in Studio City & Decibel Wings

We decide to meet at Lucy's 51, a lounge in Toluca Lake. Decibel is there with a potential man school client and we chill for a few minutes with a drink and chat. I had suggested the place and had been there on a Thursday a few weeks ago, but wasn't sure what it was like on a Friday night. The place was filled with mainly guys, and don't see a whole lot of sets to open.

I notice a cute girl walk in sit at a bar by herself. I wait a minute or two to see if she has a guy in tow. No guy, so I decide to go open. I'll call her Hb1.

Opener:

"Happy Friday! I saw you from where I was sitting and thought you were adorable so I had to come over and say hi."

Stack:

*We chat about our evenings so far. She had just come from a dance exhibition.

*I mention that she is really nice and can't be from So Cal, and we chat about our backgrounds.

*I throw out random questions (credit Natural Tim RSD)

So from this I find out that she has a boyfriend. Not a problem, but makes it more of a challenge. A girlfriend of hers shows up. Another cutie (not a hottie but a cutie). She is from Detroit so I'll call her HbDt. I chat with them both a little and Decibel comes over to wing. We all move back to our table. I start chatting with HbDt as Decibel chats with Hb1.

If you haven't read some of my other field reports, the style I have embraced is being sexual, but being discrete. I've realized that women have all these pent up cravings and sexual desires, but they don't want to be judged or act like sluts in front of their friends. So I keep everything very subtle.

Conversation that led to SNL:

So the way that I do this is I pepper sexual frames into our normal conversation.

Here are some of the normal conversational topics we chatted about:

*Detroit, Kid Rock & Eminem, brunch at sagebrush cantina, her cooking abilities, favorite hangout spots, bartending, the most adventurous things we've done lately.

Here are the sexual frames I ran throughout the night (I've posted all of these before):

*You have a very sweet face, but I detect a hidden naughty side, naughty palm read, genie (rub my head for 3 wishes), 5 things to do in Vegas to experience Sinn City, secret in her ear, holding her hand, rubbing her leg.

When I ran genie, I told her I wa going to grant her 3 wishes (multiple orgasms whenever she wants, her and her family get to live forever, and she gets to have hot sex tonight). After I did this she pulled out her blackberry and said "I don't see the hot sex on my calendar". I said, "that's the great thing about calenders, you can add things at anytime". So she says "Ok, what time should I schedule it for". I say "1:30". She add's a note on her schedule and shows it to me "Hot sex with a bald guy while he wears a condom". Now this is a very important statement and falls under the 5 objections I have posted in other reports. Girls don't want to get pregnant or get an STD. This was a roundabout way for her to check and make sure I was cool with safe sex. After she showed me this I went into a routine in which I indicate that I always have safe sex. The schedule became a running joke through the rest of the evening and from time to time we would check our watches and be like "Ok, 2 hours until our hot sex session".

At one point in the conversation, she asked if I was looking for a relationship or just looking to get laid. Now in my old way of thinking I would have said that "I have no expectations, just want to see what happens" because I thought that if I admitted I wanted to "get laid" it could hurt my chances and I should leave all my options open, especially if she is looking for a relationship. But now I understand that she is potentially screening me for a SNL, and if I set a frame that I could be possibly looking for a relationship, then it actually makes it harder for a SNL. Girls usually don't want to have sex the first night with someone they may have a potential relationship with. So my answer was "I just want to get laid". Her response was "that's not in the cards for me tonight". I never acknowledged her response and kept on chatting.

So about 45 mins into our conversation I ask if is she is a texter. She give me her number and I tell her I am going to text her "Something Dirty" (got this from Decibel). See the text message transcript below.

What's interesting about our text message conversation is that, we're all sitting there together, but her and I are in our own little sexual world via text message. Nobody knows what we're texting about. It looks like we are just sitting there having a normal conversation. Hb1 has no idea that things are getting sexual, and it gives me the opportunity to get HbDt in a sexual mood, without much kino at all. Like I said, I'm flying under the radar.

**Text messages**

CtV (11:23): Something dirty...

HbDt (11:24): More I like it

HbDt (11:24): Please

CtV (11:25): Do you know the naughty things I would be doing to you if we weren't in a bar right now?? :)

HbDt (11:25): No

HbDt (11:26): I'm innocent

CtV (11:27): Me too. I'm a good mormon boy.

HbDt (11:33): How good?

CtV (11:54): You will be so wet it will be dripping down your leg

HbDt (11:55): Promises promises

HbDt (11:56): So you assume I need your help for that?

CtV (12:03): Yes, I can help with that. With my special genie powers ;)

CtV (12:16): Let's get out of here.

HbDt (12:19): And go where?

CtV (12:20): Know a hotel close by? We can go there...

HbDt (12:21): Google...Hold on

HbDt (12:27): Beverly garland

HbDt (12:27): On Vineland

CtV (12:28): Got it..

CtV (12:29): I'll leave 5 mins after you do..

HbDt (12:30): Covert operation

CtV (12:36): Leaving now..

HbDt (12:40): Me too been talking to s******** outside

*The next morning:

CtV (8:13): Driving home. You were yummy last night. Text me sometime if you want to do it again :) Have a good rest of the weekend..

HbDt (10:41): Next time I'm in the mood for a covert operation you will be the first person to know ;)

So meet at the hotel in seperate cars. Damn it's expensive! A room is $200. I'm a little paranoid about fucking in public so I drop the coin on the room. Clothes immediately come off and we have a good long fuck session. I wore her out and kept holding off cumming cause I wanted to get the most bang for my buck (haha).

So after we were done I asked her when she knew she was going to sleep with me. She said when I texted her "Let's get out of here". I thought it would have been earlier but who knows. She then said that her friend (Hb1) NEVER talks to a guy one on one like she did with Decibel, so I have to give Decibel props again for being a great wing. I remember looking over at them throughout the night and seeing them engrossed in conversation and Decibel giving her the serious lovey dovy eye contact. Again GREAT JOB DECIBEL.

So I here is where I need some advice from the community. There was some ackwardness after we were done fucking. She was getting dressed and I was just crashing in the bed. It was pretty quiet during the 5 minutes she was doing this and I didn't come up with much to say. It felt a little uncomfortable ending it this way, and was wondering if anyone has any good ideas on what you talk about in that period of time when she is getting up and getting dressed before she leaves. Or is it ok just to stay quiet?

Foxfire Lounge Anaheim Hills - July 29 ,2010

I've decided August is going to be the month that I really get back into my cold approaches. I was doing really good for awhile, then I started having so many girls coming over on various nights, that it got easier to just stay home and get laid rather then go out. So I've set that aside for now and am getting back out there. Tonight was a warm-up.

I've been experimenting with a few things lately. I have been reading a book on self-hypnosis and there are some good scripts for self confidence and being more social. I have been creating my own scripts to help me stay motivated to go out night after night and to actually do the cold approaches when I am out. I'll keep you posted on the progress.

So I decided to go to the foxfire lounge in Anaheim Hills. This place is known around the area as a cougar hangout. I've listening to some cool stuff from Tim at RSD and wanted to try some of it.

I told myself I was going to walk in and open the first set I see. I get there and go to the bathroom, order a drink, and then start walking around the place. I'm not seeing much, so I go out to the smoking section for a bit to check it out. No sets really there either.

Back inside and I notice a tall blonde that I had met once before at a meetup event. I open here, she is with a guy and then get introduced to her friend. 45, big tits, big ass, big thick legs. Not really anything to get excited about but I need to get my mouth moving. She lives in Lakewood close to me, so we chat about cool places to hang, I tell her I'm trying not to stare at her tits while we're talking, we dance once. She goes to the bathroom so I move to another girl sitting by herself at the table.

She is here alone. I'm thinking to myself *she is here to get laid*. We start chatting and she keeps touching my shoulder and leaning in to talk in my ear. I tell her she is turning me on. She says she lives 15 mins away. I tell she is going to be my Anaheim playmate. I do my naughty palm read (but I don't think she gets it). She gets up to go to the bathroom. I think I came on a little too strong and scared her. I see her body better now and it's not what I thought so no big deal.

I go out to the patio. Two latina's come next to me. Nothing too special but not too bad. Fuckable. I open with Happy Thursday and a little toast. I ask them what they are celebrating and they say "Thursday night". I find out they used to work together and now they are in school. I run a little stack. I try to guess what they did for work *I guess heavy equipment operators*. Do best friends test and some plam reading. One starts to get hot and is touching me and showing huge signs of interest. Her friend leaves to dance I get sexual and run "genie" and "secret" on her. I tell her I would be doing naughty things to her if we weren't in a club. I start sensing there is an opportunity for a pull, but she is drinking a lot of wine and I don't want to drive her all the way back to Long Beach and then back to Anaheim where her car is.

Here is where I fucked up. I should have went for a car pull or something close by (there is a hotel across the street). She keeps drinking and I start feeling like its less and likely to happen since she is getting so drunk. She keeps trying to kiss me and I resist the best I can. She is getting annoyed saying I don't like her and I can leave if I want. *I find myself considering it since I'm not that attracted to her and I'm sure therefore not very congruent*. I give in a little and we make out, I feel her up under her dress and she has a prett nice round ass. I am getting more and more excited about the prospects. Her friend comes back in tow with a black guy named "Skillz". They smoke and go back and dance.

I head to the bathroom and bump into "Skillz". He asks if I think I can convince him to go back to his place close by. He shows me some pictures on his phone of his bar, hot tub etc. I notice some of his contacts on his phone say "PUA". I start thinking to myself is this guy a pick up artist but I don't say anything. I go back and convince them to head to the house. My girl is totally wasted right now and I'm not feeling great about the situation. As we're driving she says she is going to throw up. I roll down the window so that its not all over my car. We get to the house. It's kinda strange cause "Skillz" is fumbling with the keys and I get the sense that its not really his place.

We go in and the girls are in the bathroom vomiting. Now back in my previous days, I still would have been down but not anymore. I have to many options to go after a chick who is totally wasted and just done vomiting. A guy who I think is the owner of the house comes home and goes outside to watch tv. I ask "Skillz" if he is a pick up guy and he says yes like Style and Mystery and that he lives the Game and is starting his own lair in the area. *I'm thinking to myself that he's not that talented at all". From what I saw he basically has no game other then getting them drunk, offering them weed to smoke at his place, and relying on me to presuade the girls to leave the club. I don't tell him that I know anything about pick-up.

The girls come out, mine goes outside by the hot tub and I follow. She starts puking again and I've had enough so I decide to leave. I get home at 3 am..fall asleep at 4 am and then up at 7:30 am to start work.

Takeaways:

Good

• I was loud (at times)
• All my sets hooked
• Ran Sexual frames
• Tried new material
• Didn't give into shit tests
• Actually pulled

Bad

• Made out in the club
• A little too quiet at the after hours
• I didn't try for the hottest girls
• Let her drink too much
• Only opened 3 sets total

2nd Street in Belmont Shores

I decided that I need to work on my Cold Approach more, as I've been relying too much on match.com and meetup.com for female interactions. It's been hard for me to get back in that headspace of cold approach. Most likely because I know how hard it is. But I know I need to do it. My buddy invited me to an amateur comedy show in Long Beach. It was pretty shitty, but I respect the process, as it is similar to developing your stack in pick-up.

After the show we decided to go out on 2nd Street in Belmont Shores. It's a very young college crowd, but I haven't been down there much so thought it would be cool to check out. While I was out I got a bootycall text, but refrained from getting together in order to stay out.

I wasn't really feeling it, maybe because I am intimidated by how young they were, so I just observed most of the evening, but had an interesting observation watching my friend. He did not approach anybody and seemed happy to resign himself to it being a shitty night and go home empty handed. It made me think, "is this what it's like going out for most guys?" An evening of frustration and then just go home and hope for something a little bit better next time. This is their reality, and I don't want that to be me. There is no reason why I could not work any one of those bars I was in and create a buzz with the social proof I'm able to obtain.

He was waiting for me to make something happen. I knew I could if I wanted to. I feel like I have a limited window to still game these younger college girls at a venue like this, especially since I only have 18 months until I'm 40. If you master the interactions with the young A.D.D. hot college girls, everything after that will be easy. So I am going to get started.