Motivations and Profound Thoughts

There are a couple blogs and email subscriptions I follow and there are things I often read that I find very profound and insightful. Here are a few I recently read that I liked:

From Braddock's Blog:

"And it all comes down to opening. I guarantee if I had at least made the effort to open in all those instances I now regret, they would not have materialized into such nights. You will not regret the times where a girl blows you out for trying. You will remember the nights where you went out and didn’t talk to anyone – and those are the ones that hurt."

From Entropy:

"This is one of the most important and profound realizations that
I've ever had in all of my years of coaching: pick up is not a
skill that is learned... it's a habit that is practiced.

You already know how to speak to a girl, you just haven't created
a habit of it. You already know how to be sexual, you just
haven't made a habit of it.

Seduction is less like learning to play piano (takes years of
study and work), and more like training yourself to write with
your left-hand if you were born right-handed. You "know" how to
do it already, it's just that you've never done it before, so
you're fighting through a lifetime of bad habits."

From Entropy:

"If approach anxiety is merely a lack of conditioning ourselves to
talk to beautiful strangers, then we shouldn't be training
ourselves for strength, but for endurance. Someone who can't
approach at all lacks the endurance to even do one approach.
Therefore you should lower the intensity instead of raising it."

From Captain Jack:

This is best done in a venue where people go and hang out for 2-3 hours. Start a normal conversation with a Hotty. Be conversational, almost boring for the first minute. Then, say something like this…

You know, I’m sure you are TIRED of hearing this but you have really… really… nice lips.

She’ll probably looked kind of shocked or embarrased or say thank you or… get back on the previous subject and then say,

Gotta go. Great chatting with you. If you see me around don’t be shy, say hi or something.

And then leave.

But, don’t stop there…

Do the same thing with another girl, then another, then another.

Before long you will have them gravitating back towards you. Keep circling. One of them WILL sink her teeth in and you’ll have the easiest success of your life.

What is important here is not only what you are doing to the single girl… but, how it looks to the rest of the women in the venue and everyone else. There is a NETWORK effect.